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Do It, do it, do
it, do for me. Okay,
today, today's episode. Yeah,
we have Shane WOMAS. Okay,
do you know about Shane? Do
you know who she is? Who?
What? Tell me. Yes,
it's so funny because I actually she I
watched her on the Bachelor, sure, of course, years ago, and
I was obsessed with which she did
her hair, because it was always perfect.
It was like she had the cutest
like always a ribbon and a poof
that if dive it. Gud Team
for that. Like did they again?
I don't. I mean I'm actually
probably not. I don't know much about
the bachelor, but I did.
I do remember watching that like probably fifteen
years ago. Thanks stick in my
head when I like something. And then
she had another show on e and
her brother's were on it and they were
hot, as I was like,
Damn, is the whole family attractive?
Yeah, yeah, maybe, just
yes, good jeans. Yes, and
then she married Nick Ritchie, who
we've also had on the podcast and who
she's not a divorced. So we
are going to get into that a little
bit. Like in the process of
a divorce. Yes, and so you
know, we're just gonna we're going
to have a shoot the shit, as
some girl talk. Yeah, yeah, see how she's doing. Let's do
it. I have Shane Lama's hair. Welcome to Brandy Glenva and filtered.
How are you, beauty? I
am good. I am well. I
mean going through life. Life sucks
right now, but other than that,
that's I kind of real. I
kind of know a little bit about it
and and I watched you when you're
on the bachelor a long time ago when
you always had the cutest hair does, I was like, I don't know
if this girl's going to the Master
Guy, but I love her hair does,
like at the order written. Oh
my God, that is so amazing.
Yeah, well, you know,
when you're blond, you could literally
like throw on a headband and it
looks cute or like brow your hair and
a hair bone. But yeah,
I always tried to like do something.
There was no hair and makeup,
so this kind of like free for all.
That was a fun experience. Yeah, that was pretty fun. No,
you definitely had the cutest air and
I was like, Oh, I
love her, but I didn't think
you guys were a match. But that
was how many years ago was that
hat? Oh my God, so that
was like seriously, Oh my God, I was twenty one. I'm thirty
six. I don't even know.
I can't do math. So like it's
fifteen. That's fifteen years ago.
Well, I still remember your hair,
oh my God, like certain things
stick with me when I like them.
I'm just like, you know already
know. I know that is totally true,
because I remember the first time that
I saw you ever on TV.
I will never forget it. You
were like in crutches and I'm like,
she's got the best mass. Like
if anybody could like rock, I just
will never forget it. So whatever
I think of you, I think of
like these beautiful legs and like short
Um, like you just had no god
even I didn't tell them I broke
my leg when they called me for the
show, because I thought they were
going to go, okay, well,
we don't want you, so I
just showed up with my crutches going hi,
I'm ready. You were like the
cutest thing ever and totally I was
just like, Oh my God,
like I this, this, I like
her hot, like she's just a
no bullshit kind of goal. So I
appreciate it. That was a rough
time. So that's what I remember.
And then since then you've been you've
been through a lot. So tell us
kind of like where your journey has
gone. I mean I know personally because
I have, you know, friends
that used to work with your ax that
no longer work with him, and
I kind of I know him as well,
and I was kind of caught in
the middle of a second but just
business stuff. But tell us,
like what what happened after the Bachelor?
How'd you meet your husband. You
like, what with what's going on with
that? So my ex husband right, very, very important to bit.
Well, almost soon. You know
the drill. Yeah, God only knows
when, like I will have a
party when that happens. So I basically
married the worst person in the world
to marry as far as they aligedly,
elligedly right in my opinion. Yes, you just don't want you to get
sued. Oh, yeah, that
well, I mean, yeah, that's
true. unleged late. Yeah,
so, I don't know how you do
this. Like, if I had
a podcast, I would get in so
much trouble. Oh, I do. I've been sued so many times.
That's where I'm trying to help you
not get sued. But the Times these
days. So anyways, yes,
I left the bachelor and I did like
an e reality television show called leave
it to lamas, and we did that
for one season and it was just
nuts. It was just too much for
me. I was a line producer
on it and behind the scenes is what
so it was like my family and
me trying to be a boss of my
family and I just was not.
It was not my thing. Like I
just didn't want to be like yeah, I kind of remember get like two
handsome brothers, or maybe one,
I can't remember. Like yeah, it
was my brother. And then like
it was supposed to be like a Oh
shit, chain show, just kind
of like about me and my just life.
But of course, like my dad, for him to be in it,
he had to be in all that
episodes and me to change the title.
So it like became you know how
that all goes. So I was
like whatever, like I let's just
because I was just trying to make my
mom money, everybody money, you
know, let's just roll the the cameras.
And so I didn't. I didn't
want, I wasn't intending to become
like a second Kardashian family at all. Like that is not my thing.
Anyway. So we did leave it
to lamas and I was it was just
a lot and my family was just
nuts and my brother went off and spend
all his money and, you know, it was just too much and I
told e I was like look,
I can't do it with my family anymore.
So if you just want to do
like a show around me in my
life. So anyways, make a
long story short, we pulled leave it
to lamas and I took like six
months off and I was like, you
know, since I just had any
shows, like getting paid to do appearances
back in the day, when I
of course show up to like a clump
and get fifty grand. So because
I'm getting my well, I went to
stower for fifty, but here it's
like twenty. But they're not so much
anymore. Yeah, member, like
back in the day, like it was,
I mean legit, legit, and
I mean now like you'd be lucky
if they offered you know, I
don't even know. I but so we
could ask got disc it. I'm
sure he knows. I'm sure it's getting
a lot more than are there are. YEA, yeah, that's like his
whole bill. So, although I
don't know him personally. But what was
I going to say? I have
no idea. Totally through after leave it
to llamas. Like we're like you
decided to kind of you, did you
know your parents has and then you, I'm guessing you that's how you met
your husband. Or how did that
happen? Yeah, so we I was
like my step ex step mother,
Shawna sand, who is just a nightmare
in a half, asked me to
go to Las Vegas with her for my
little sister at the time she was
eight years old, her cheerleading competition.
We're going to drive all together,
all of my sisters and Shana, we're
going to drive to Vegas. I'm
like sure, what I was, you
know, kind of like hanging out
with my little sisters at the time.
They were all super young. So
we drive to Vegas. Sean and I
get into a massive sight because she
wants to bring in her alcoholic beverage to
the cheerleading competition at the Forum Caesar's
right, and I'm like you can't.
Yeah, it's Vegas, but like
this is we're here for like a convention
style cheerleading competition, like it's not
veg yes, right, right. So
we got into an argument and I
was just like, you know what,
instead of like adding field of the
fire as like I'm just gonna step away.
I'll be act for the words,
and I go sit down and going
through my phone, like trying to
figure out either I'm going to fly home,
like I cannot deal with Shan anymore, and Lonnie, I'm sure you
know Lonnie. Lonnie, what's his
name? Heat Lonnie. He like runs.
He used to run like Dultchit and
all like the big clubs and stuff.
anyways, Lonnie Moore, I think, is what his name is.
so He's always like in Vegas and
I'm like, you know, I'm going
to see like if he's here,
and he's like yeah, I'll meet you,
I'm going to come, I'm going
to come right down. I'm like,
Oh, you're here. And so
literally I'm sitting there waiting and in
walks this guy in a bathrobe with
painted black finger nails, all like drunk
and sits down and mind you,
like I'm going a Fedorra, and I'm
like not vegas mode. I'm like
here was my family, and he goes
so hello, and I'm like,
I mean, I just didn't even give
him the time a day and and
he's like hello, I'm like hi.
He's like still, what's your story? And I'm like, Um, none
of your business, like I'm good, like just please, I'm not in
the mood, you know. And
in Hindsight Lonnie Moore was his friends and
sent Nick Ritchie to the bar where
I was and was like a hot blonde,
go meet her and he tries to
hit on me. I was not
interested. He's like do you not
know who I am? And I'm like,
Oh God, no, I don't. He's like the dirty, the
dirtycom and back in a day,
like it was just TM Z and like
Perez Hilton and like a Hollywood.
Yeah, I mean like we weren't.
It wasn't like blogs or like big
big right, I have no idea with
the dirtycom is and he's anyways.
He was just I was not not with
it. But, long story short, because of Shawn is sands and her,
she's just too much. I couldn't
handle it. So I ended up
going out with him that night and
we got married. Okay, well,
I mean not that night, though. Yes, that night, got married
that night, the day you met
him. Who got married after he was
gross with this nail, Polish nail, the dirty. Don't you know who
I am? Yeah, wow,
no, so quint a story. I
mean there's a lot like you know, one day we can get like into
it and how it all kind of
went from Oh to like, I think
I could like love this guy,
because it had nothing to do with like
in what I think about it,
I absolutely worst idea. Don't ever,
like I don't mind us too,
so don't worry, I mean, but
I was like in my mind was
like I have okay, we can get
it an old like I always try
to think like where I was at mentally
when I did that. anyways,
we got married and the next day,
like we wake up and I kind
of forgot that, like people might find
out, like I don't know,
you know whom? I right? So,
like who really cares? But he
might write the story. Yeah,
so, yeah, exactly. Or
Yeah, little did I know that he
was like a theme. anyways,
so it says Shane Lamas, Mary's Nick
Ritchie from the DIRTYCOM and I'm like
okay, and he and he's like wait,
what your name is before my name, like I got the first billing
credit, and I'm like, Oh
my God, what, who are you?
The DIRTYCOM? Like, who are
you? I have to put on
regular headphones for one second. Yeah, no worries or yeah, I hate
the way I look at these headphones
are so big now I look like an
alien Woll. If I had some, I put some mom to join you,
but I'd like you don't have these
things. I do, but my
kids have them all upstairs and they're
all fucked up. You know what I
mean? The kids are boys.
Everything's like broken, the wires are broken
and they still all my shit.
Do they really even boys. All My
chargers, like right, I can
write a chargers have all the rooms and
then all the chargers are gone and
so, you know, gouse and then
take some to their dads and I'm
like where the fuck are all my chargers?
And like bring them home from Your
Dad's because they're expensive. Don't even
get me started with that whole dad
see you, like I've done every system
imaginable with the clothes and me labeling
moms like, but it's just, Oh,
so you are. You guys in
that phase right now, like so,
wait, you got married day you
met and then you were together for
quite some time. Twelve years.
Yeah, fuck, that is I mean
that is a long, successful marriage. I mean, I thinkly. I
mean I don't say like what people
say they got our divorce, that it's
not that it failed, it's just
that the relationship Kip Itig came through an
end. You know absolutely that new
persons kind of it like we grow and
sometimes we grow apart, and that's
exactly like what happened. And there we
just kind of like there was no
love and I was unhappy and he was
unhappy and it to be honest,
in the beginning of our divorce we agreed
and it was like okay, we're
doing it, but I actually pulled the
trigger and filed. Yeah, and
it became now his ego was ruined and
he was going to war, when
in reality we both had agreed to divorce
and to do this am equally we
were. I was like we can be
like the role model co parents,
you know what I mean, like and
be best friend. And it went
from that to his whole entire ego got
smashed because I filed first, and
I mean he just put he's put me
through hell and back the last year. It's crazy that when you love someone
so much at a certain point,
then you go through the divorce, it's
crazy how much hatred can come out
and like the person that you love more
than anything in the world, then
you see this person literally trying to ruin
your life. And I went through
literally like literally just go in like I
want you to end up with nothing
and I don't care if you and my
kids are have no place to live, you know what I mean? Like
it's hundred percent. It's so bizarre
something house. Yeah, it's like it's
mind boggling because I was so naive
to think that, like, Oh yeah,
I don't need to pull the money
out now, like obviously it's our
money and he will. You know, he's not going to leave me with
nothing. Oh my God, I
was beyond like the man sold my car
one day, like I didn't have
a vehicle to take my children to private
school in. I'm like literally never
paid a bill in our entire marriage.
He was the one that did that, and it's like, okay, he
doesn't care if I like, as
far as even till today, like if
I don't have money in my account, who? He just doesn't care.
It doesn't care, and I'm like
the mother of his children. I mean,
I've tell you, divorce brings out
the worst. I was in the
same boat. I Like I only
had a credit card that I used for
everything and he paid all the bills
and then he when we got, you
know, separated, he canceled my
credit card. I didn't know it.
I'm at the grocery store buying diapers
for our children and, like all you
everything for the kids and groceries declined. After it's like five hundred dollars and
I'm can you call the bank?
It's just so crazy because they don't really
think about the fact that you are
the mother of their children and this affects
the kids. It's like it's like
I have to win, right, right,
right. It's more or less like
she's not my problem anymore. Yeah,
he needs to figure it out.
She's an adult, like I'm going
to. And granted, there are
men that get a divorce and take care
of their yeah, right, but
I didn't marry one of those. Know
that I'm not, and I say
one, and unfortunately mine is a really
big narcissist, and so there's really
no wiggle room with anything. Like I
have to just accept like I can't
with him because I literally it just goes
back and forth. There's never any
I mean and what he says to the
children and how he brings in our
children into it, like he didn't make
spouse to support payment, and I
live off of that. Like literally,
I'm like, I have ten dollars
in my account, like you're in the
court document that you sign, that
we sign like this, you're supposed and
he'll just get a job. Did
it, did it, and it's just
like, oh my God, I
mean it's just a pure six cycle and
it's a no no. When we
were married, I made money to you,
but I just gave it to you. I don't think I saw a
check ever that I made. It
literally was just and it's like I've never
ever seen somebody wants somebody to fail
so bad. Then he wants me to
fail. I mean, I have
friends that have recently split working with him
and he literally is on a rampage
to allegedly, because I'm hearing one side,
to ruin their business and I don't
understand, like they're they're there,
has to be away. Well,
you should actually write about I wrote a
book about it, like any like
when people are getting married, and like
make sure your name is on the
House. Make sure, because mine,
like, I didn't have anything when
we left and I signed my name off
the house because I signed whatever he
put in front of me, not knowing
he was cheating. So like it. Really you should write a book about
like what you would have done,
like what like for young women getting married,
like make sure you have your you
know, your own financial stability.
Make sure you have your own money, your own checking account, because I
didn't. I wish I would have
known you when you started, because I
could have helped you write. You
know, it does, I mean it
will get better. It's going to
take one a decade. It's going to
take a decade. I'm just saying
literally been like a year, like two.
I filed in May of last year, so it's been pretty much a
year and I'm like it's been wow. So that's where I'm at right now.
I'm literally like we have fifty fifty
custody, even though, like he
rents like a five bedroo furnished house
on the beach and I have the well
rental for my kids, but I
created a home again for my children and
yeah, it's just it's he took
everything. Nothing was in my name,
so it's not like he took it
away from me, it just didn't have
anything. Yeah, literally, eat, my phone was shut off because he
called a tent. was like just
so I had to walk into a TT
and be like you know, and
you need your own phone service, and
then he needed to call just say
that I could take my number. It's
like I felt like a child again, and I mean just the littlest stuff.
Like today, the trash guy just
drives by my chroach to trash cans
and I'm running down the street.
I'm like, you forgot my trash.
He's like, ma'am, ma'am,
you need to pay your bill and I'm
like, so, where does my
tax money go? So I had depending
here to trash and for Supek me
off. I'm literally like it's all new
to me, like I get it. It's and I'm not complaining or asking
for any no, I mean,
but it's, it's, it's, it's
life. You you know, I
came out of my marriage at thirty six
no credit, because I didn't need
any because, like Eddie, got everything
had, I ranged over this and
that. It all got taken away.
And, speaking of broken legs,
I didn't know my insurance, I medical
insurance, was canceled. So when
I broke my leg, I had no
medical insurance. That costs me Fiftyzero
dollars that leg. And I mean it
was just it was such a shit
show and I literally was in the place
that you're in now, trying to
coparent. Like he would send the kids
back to me with the with the
same clothes. I sent them to his
housin because, God forbid, I
get the nice clothes that he has at
his house, and it was I'm
like I would, it's for the kids.
I put them in Nice clothes.
Like why are we like being petty
like this. But divorce brings out
the worse some people, unfortunately, and
it takes a while to get through
it. But like what, I've been
pushed to a limit that, like
he has made me feel things for him
that I never have felt for anybody
else before, like true anger and like
just and I just breathe, but
literally it's it's the evilness, like it's
it of the petty of just why, you know what I mean. Why,
and even to the point of where, like when the kids go to
him, he does fun things,
right, like he'll take them to Combo
and didn't rent it, and so
he's doing like that, and I'm Dil
it's the Disneyland Dad thing I have, that my kids are on vacation every
other week with their dad like that. That was the whole it's it is
such a Cliche, but it's a
cliche for a reason, because that's what
Dad's do when they have money and
they get a divorce and they want to
punish the x for some reason,
he like he's the one that cheated on
me. I'm writing. Punished right. And if you must, even worse,
if you guys agreed to get a
divorce like this shouldn't be happening,
like it shouldn't. No, I
agree, I mean no, but I
understand divorce is not fun for anybody
and you know it will bring out the
nastiness, but like he's gone way
beyond below the Nastiness and like it's just
sickening. I mean, I try
and call my dad and talk to him
about it, like how did the
hell did you get through like seven,
eight divorces? Like you need to
break this down for me, because he
married that. Oh my God,
I Love Your Dad because we did on
my show together and he was just
the sweetest most, like he was the
best gentleman. But, like,
I did not realize who is married that
many times. So I love my
dad and he's like such a lover and
like yes, so he's been married
a few times and literally he just stopped
paying his last like my sister just
turned like eighteen, like seven months ago.
So like he's been paying child support
since my brother, my brothers thirty
eight to just six months ago,
right, and I'm just like you,
and he says, daughter, I
never missed a payment, even though there
was no work going you know,
in and trust me, it's not like
I wanted to pay her like.
I get it, but at the end
of the day, when you're in
a marriage that to agree like your going
to be the breadwinner, you'll we're
going to put all the baskets in your
basket because I'm going to be home
with the kids and being the mother,
which is the hardest, the hardest
job in the world is bring a mom
that really is the hardest job in
the world. And then to be completely
just hit to the curb when you
know I'm not his arm candy anymore or
what have you. It's just it's
just sad. It really is sad and
I do need to write a book
that. Honestly, writing stuff down it's
like so Cathartic and even if you
don't do anything with it, like writing
shit down, your anger, put
it on paper, because it kind of
frees you a little bit to like
breathe it out, like you get rid
of it a little bit when you
write it down. Um, if you're
married for twelve years, isn't half
of everything yours? Yes, it is,
but he is he's just fighting it
and prolonging it and dragging it on,
and the courts right now are a
nightmare because of covid so they're like
Kate. They are like a year. So it's like we've been to court
via zoom like twice, but it
and we agreed on a deal and it's
he supposed to go through with the
deal and transfer half of what he had,
but he's so shady about his business
being. He's just it's like you
really don't have you have to get
like a forensic accountant, which is Super
Expensi did that. Yeah, I
found like twelve grund on one, and
you know what ended up happening for
Eddie and I, like we fought for
over two years and we wasted all
of the money we could have been we
could have si it on our divorce. So when we did five hundred percent
ideal, we really didn't have anything
to split anymore. And and it's like,
I wish I could talk some sense
into these people that are getting divorce.
I learned from my mistakes. Go
immediately, so you save your fucking
money. I mean, but we
were so angry and pissed, like we
wanted to fight. I write totally, but and that's him, that's that's
and I understand, like you had
every right to want to fight too,
because you felt just the injustice that
was done, you know what I mean.
But me, like we agreed,
this was like and then all of
a sudden, because his ego,
because I went, you know, and
in an interview I said how we
hadn't had sex in a year. All
of a sudden he's getting text messages
from his friends, like like you'd you
know, weren't fucking your wife for
a full year, and like his just
whole ego is just when I was
just saying, look, we just grew
with him, like this is why
we're getting a divorce, like because,
yes, we haven't been hint to
any here, and what's the point?
They totally is gone. I don't
think that's anything. Like to be touched.
please. Thank you. So I'm
just like, and I'm sure he
would too, you know what I
mean. Yeah, and it's not healthy.
He's just, yeah, he's turned
it into a war and that's where
we're at. Like literally, I
text him the other day. I'm like
all he was just going on.
He's like you made this bed, now
you have to live in it.
I go, what do you mean?
What bed did I make? All
I wanted was a divorce. Yeah,
and you wanted war, and now
we're somewhere in the middle and it sucks,
like it totally sucks when we could
have just agreed. We don't even
need lawyers, you know what I
mean. But he's Nick Ritchy and you
know he's a fare. Well,
do you see, like, is there
anyone in your life that could like
talk to Hey, like mediate, just
with not legally, but you have
had every body, and our not like
everybody gives up because he's just so
like that, like she's impossible. Literally,
it's just well, I'm so sorry
that you're going through this. I
mean, I feel like it's almost
stage our view, and I wish I
knew you personally before, like you
know, happened, because I could have
helped you. I really tell young
people like make sure things are in your
name, make sure you have your
own accounts. I've a friend going through
like possibly getting a divorce. Nothing's
in her name, like you need to
start getting money at like and putting
it away in your own account, like
you can't. You know, she's
in a loveless marriage and again no sex.
You know, it's like we're getting
to an age when you're on your
s and s like it's this is
our prime of our rights. We need
to be happy and totally I don't. I don't mortally. And is he?
Did he move on with anyone yet? Maybe would leave. I wish.
I like mate. I pray at
night that he just finds a girlfriend
or has somebody like just because he'll
just leave me alone and just you know
what I mean. It's just no
he and you know, I mean I'm
sure he's whatever, but not that
anybody serious that he's introduced the kids.
But I feel like I know nick
didn't have like some medical issue or he
has he has ms. that's what
it was. Yeah, because I had
him on my backcast a while ago. So he he was diagnosed with Ms
Gosh, I want to say like
six or seven years ago, and he
doesn't really help his cause with that. He drinks alcohol, I mean all
the things that you're not supposed to
do, and he's got his own demons
and anger. You're inside of him. But I think like this MS,
like you know, and then he'll
say the MS is my fault, which
you said the other day. Wait, it's your fault. Yeah, because
my fault that he has. I'm
not possible. I caused him to literally
have Ms. and I'm like,
wait, is that eve in sight.
I was thinking in my mind,
because he's so like drilling in my head,
in my mind, is that even
possible? It could always come.
Let you know it's not, but
you know. anyways, that's where I'm
at right now. I'm kind of
just, you know, trying to figure
out my single life like and all
this. It's hard, and the Times
right now, the world every I
mean that's what you have to figure out,
that you don't need a man.
You can do anything by yourself.
It's just hard when you come out
of having someone taking care of you.
And I was in the same boat, to learn everything. All it went
like you have to learn, Oh, I have to pay this bill,
this bill, this, and like
it's a lot. It's overwhelming. You
have to work on your credit.
Like no one wanted to rent me a
house because I didn't have credit.
Like in my first car I had at
thirty six, I had to have
my dad cosline for me. I might
be this is insane, but you
know, you'll get through it. You're
going to get stronger. It will
it will die down. It takes time.
Just try not to if I could
give you any advice, just try
not to push the buttons like you
know what I mean, because it's just
not worth it. It's so unhealthy, like he would want to fight like
he would, just like he knows
that push he would, and it's just
unhealthy. I was sick. I
was I waited like nothing. I was
so I was divorced, Diet.
I looked like super gone. I was.
I was like worried about me.
I'm like, I'm stressed out all
of the fucking time and I'm taking
care of two kids and I don't know
how I'm gonna pay my bills.
Like it's a lot of stress. I
wish I had that stress right now, because I guess some weight over Covid
Oh my God, you're tiny.
Stop It. No, I promise.
I don't fit in anything like this. Is a swimsuit. Pever up because
it's loose. Mexico, I think
I read somewhere you were just in Mexico.
So I mean Mexico at a wedding, but I did not put a
bathing suit on. I just some
bay suits on either, and if I
do, they're like the long sleeve
ones. Well, God, all of
mine are tiny and none of them
are fitting right now, but I buy
the twenty fit by the twenty,
I'm gonna be back to a size for
what. That's happening? All Right, I'm gonna I'm going to keep your
word to that. All Right,
I'm gonna send you staily screenshots of my
scale. No, I really am
not gonna. I don't even to myself.
I do too, but I'm figuring
out ways, like, especially with
medication. Yeah, but my doctor
gave me somebody Atian that's supposed to like.
You're not supposed to get hungry,
so hungry, but I'm not eating
as much. So, yeah,
we'll see, because of my cholesterol is
so hi that. Yeah, well, when we get older, all these
fun things start to happen. They
do, but you wouldn't do this,
I promise. When I was one
thousand nine hundred and eighteen, just ran
around. I'll like drinking coffee and
like. You know, anyways. Do
you have a young spirit? Thank
you. You were awesome. I love
you and I feel like I could
talk to you for hours and pick your
brain about everything. I'm going to
have to sit down with you and,
yeah, and talk to you about
a few things, but we will do
that. It was so lovely catching
up with you too. I was great.
West of the week. cohuted.
I all right, stay strong,
but thank you honest see, it
was a really nice interview, like I
informational. Yeah, like, I
think a lot of people can get a
lot of information and value out of
it. Yeah, I mean it's I
was kind of in her same exact
place, except I do know how to
Potty, but to drain my kids. Yeah, exact same age, coming
out of a divorce with no idea
how to take care of myself in a
lot of ways. Yes, I
had, I mean I had certain skills,
like obviously like a be a mom. And you know, how old
were your kids at that? Him? They were two and six. You
don't know what her age I I
think we didn't ask, but she's,
you know, she's done on reality
to be a few times. She's,
you know, got this very famous
family. I'm worked with her dad.
He's super kind but, like,
I can't believe he's been married seven times,
I know, and he seems like
he's the good, the good.
Yeah, right guy. I felt
really, really bad for her. Vader
parks is calling me right now and
I cannot answer. Sorry, guys,
Um, I just like I can't
wait for you. that. I do
hope you guys get together and I
hope that you can just shed some information,
give hers give you know, I
want to. I feel like she
needs some guidance. She's like she's
hurting right now, right and she doesn't
it's hard when you you really don't
know what to do, where your next
dollars coming from, how to Co
parent and I think, you know,
I think nick likes me a little
bit, not like like, and you
know, I think that maybe I
could be a mediator for them a little
possibly you can be a positive thing
to have some kind of mediator. Yeah,
absolutely. I mean, you can
lose all of your money because you're
fighting over it and you're so mad
you want to punish the other person and
you know they're in the public eye
to an extent. He could write whatever
he wants on his you know,
the dirty or whatever he's doing now,
and she can do interviews and talk
about him and it's you know, I
feel like I did all of those
things. Don't know that it helped,
but you know, maybe maybe I
can help her down the road. Yeah,
yeah, absolutely. I hope you
guys would make it happen for that.
That that's really great. Now she's
she's lovely. He seems really lovely.
Yeah, she seems very grounded and
I thought her closet was a little
messy, but she couldn't figure out
her only sound like half of her face.
Every once in a while we saw
her beautiful smile, but you know,
I yeah, I'm gonna have to
help that one out. Yeah,
but let's do hi Ku, let's
do like, because it's over. Let's
do high. Could wait before we
do the Hik? Who Do you want
to chew? What? Oh,
hey, guys, huge news, big,
huge. Okay, we've been waiting
for this. My rap song,
my new song, world debut this
Saturday, which the date is. Date
is the eleventh, June eleven,
and you can find it on this huge
DJ, Dj who kid is going
to release it on his radio station on
serious Xm. It's called shade forty
five and it's going to be playing all
day Saturday and all day Sunday and
it's called life of a housewife and he
will also be interviewing me for the
release and I'm so excited to share it
with you. So please again,
you have to hear it and then you
can down load it on anywhere you
can get I think it's going to be
on spotify, Dadada, Dadada,
Dadada, all the places again. That
is Saturday and Sunday with Dj Hugan
and it's on serious, serious Xm shade
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songs who're going to on a can not
wait to hear the whole thing.
I am so excited. Okay, Peach,
she's now. You're just teasing.
Now. Was that our hi Ku?
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