What happens when the story you've told yourself about your family isn't the whole story? In this episode of Shaping Freedom, Lisane Basquiat sits down with relationship educator Tania Khazaal for an honest conversation about family estrangement, generational healing, and the courage it takes to see the people we love and ourselves with fresh eyes. Drawing from her own experience of cutting off contact with her mother before ultimately rebuilding that relationship, Tania shares why true healing didn't begin when she walked away, but when she started looking inward. Together, Lisane and Tania explore the tension between personal accountability and parental responsibility, the stories we create from childhood experiences, and why healing doesn't require excusing the past. They discuss the pressures facing today's families, how social media and therapy culture have shaped the way we talk about trauma, and why learning to communicate with empathy can change the trajectory of a relationship. This is a thoughtful conversation about breaking generational patterns, embracing nuance over blame, and discovering that freedom isn't found in waiting for someone else to change. It's found in changing how we choose to show up. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices