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Let's Talk About Sex with "She Comes First" Author Ian Kerner
October 30, 2023 · 46 min
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A sex therapist explains why talking about sex wrong is costing you real intimacy.
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In this episode
- What a sex script is and why couples need one
- How to actually talk about sex with your partner
- Why most couples avoid the conversation and how to start it
- A guided walkthrough to write your own sex script
About this episode
*This episode includes sexually explicit language.We communicate about a lot of things with our romantic partner -- money, kids, career, food, and politics– but how often do you really TALK about sex? And if you do, are you doing it right?
Best-selling author and sex therapist Ian Kerner breaks down how to talk about sex with your partner and explains why writing your personal sex script is key to sexual happiness.
In 2004 he released the blockbuster best-selling book She Comes First. Ian’s work has been featured in the Washington post, NYT, NPR, The Atlantic, and New York Magazine. He is the go-to expert on sex therapy and in his latest book,
So Tell Me About The last Time You Had Sex, he suggests couples use a “sex script.”
What is a sex script and how do you write one or follow it? Ian Kerner answers these questions, and guides us through writing our own sex script, in this episode of Ten Seconds to Air.
Ian Kerner Website:
https://www.iankerner.com/
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